Fetish. A BDSM Glossary. Home > Writing > Glossary Age Play -- A role play where one or both partners take personas of people older or younger than they really are. Common examples are Teacher/Schoolgirl, Babysitter/Naughty child. Animal Play – The assumption of the persona of an animal by the submissive, usually in conjunction with some sort of use or training by the dominant.
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