Guide to eating pussy~ - Mz_Dolce_Damiana - FetLife. The Guide to Canes and Caning. 10 Things I Learned From A High End Prostitute. Identifying Breeds of Switch (Or, What the fuck do they fuck?) - KDub74 - FetLife. A submissives journey - 7 Types of Internet submissives. In day-to-day dealing with the online BDSM community, a dominant will typically run across many submissives in chat, forums or mailing lists. Although each submissive has their own personality and quirks and flaws and merits, each will usually fit into one of the following seven categories of internet submissive behavior. Please do note that these are only the most common types of internet submissives; others do exist, but to much lesser degrees. Type One: The “Little Girl” Submissive – r-blushing and ever-giggly, the “little girl” type of submissive is the consummate child actor. She will usually use every cute little hair twist and every sweet little smile in her arsenal to make sure everyone finds her to be the sweetest little girl in the whole community.
Type Two: The “Tame Me” Submissive – The “tame me” type of submissive is overly rebellious, overly strong-willed and overly confrontational with dominant types. Type Six: The “I am Slave, Hear Me Roar!” Author: BDSM Tourguide. The Chain Trick -- Squirt Like Crazy - Asspaddle - FetLife. Newbie Doms: How Not to Look Like an Idiot - Bellaforte - FetLife. Advice for Newbie Doms Part Deux - Bellaforte - FetLife. The Domly Dom Lord High Master of the Whole Universe and Other Places Guidance Manual - whitetigerprime - FetLife. Multiple Orgasms: The Most Powerful Domination Technique - Dominant_Soul2 - FetLife. Why Girls Should Never Have Anal Sex.
So, I’m sitting in my friend’s West London living room, well into the bottle of cheap pinot grigio I dug out of her fridge, and already through with the couple of lines I had forgotten in my bag from an unnecessarily late night two weeks ago, and I’m supposed to write about why some people enjoy shoving a stick of meat up their poomaker.
The truth is, I have no fucking idea. **[However, VICE's Kara Crabb certainly does. After you finish this article, read her counterpoint, which dives into the joys of sticking things up your butt.]** Sure, once you’ve been on your first, or second, or third long-term relationship and have sweated over all those extravagant positions that are supposed to be delightful, over and over again, only to go back to settling for the same old missionary/girl-on-top/frombe routine, and he is whispering soft-spoken gibberish about how much he loves your bum… sure, in those circumstances, it sounds like the hottest thing in the world. And you begin to consider it. How to Speak to a Sub Type Human and Convey Your Domly Domliness Without Being an Asshat, Creepy or Just Totally Lost and Without Social Graces - whitetigerprime - FetLife.
How to: be a drag king | Lesbilicious. Why should drag queens get all the gender-queering fun? The drag king scene is picking up in the UK, as girls realise the fun they can have in becoming men. Because if there’s one golden rule of being a drag king, it’s that you don’t have to be male to have fun being a man. In fact, and just to confuse matters, you don’t necessarily have to be a woman either. “I have a friend, a gay biological man who loved the idea of being a drag king and performing maleness,” says drag king expert, Lenna Cumberbatch. “It’s about performing gender. Lenna should know – she’s been in the drag king scene for years, performing as smooth-talking ladies’ man Leon DaLuva and Uncle Lenny, a used car salesman type. Lenna’s lived in both the UK and the USA, and finds that there are surprising differences in the drag king scenes of both countries: “In the US there seems to be a lot more parodying of performers like Justin Timberlake or Barry White,” she explains.
Safety is definitely a big issue. Bigender. Bigender, bi-gender or bi+gender describes a tendency to move between feminine and masculine gender-typed behaviour depending on context. Some bigendered individuals express a distinctly "en femme" persona and a distinctly "en homme" persona, feminine and masculine respectively; others have shades of grey between the two. It is recognized by the American Psychological Association (APA) as a subset of the transgender group.[1] A 1999 survey conducted by the San Francisco Department of Public Health observed that, among the transgendered community, less than 3% of those who were genetic males and less than 8% of those who were genetic females identified as bigender.[2] While an androgynous person retains the same gender-typed behaviour across situations, the bigendered person consciously or unconsciously changes their gender-role behaviour from primarily masculine to primarily feminine, or vice versa. See also[edit] References[edit] External links[edit]
DC Kings – Building your Drag King. NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday is Having An Epic International Fisting Day Party. Today, October 21st, is International Fisting Day! Via blushingfemme.tumblr.com Jiz Lee and Courtney Trouble started International Fisting Day last year after their film, Live Sex Show, was banned and censored for featuring a fisting scene between Lee and Nina Hartley. Lee explains: “Fisting Day began not only a celebration, but a call for awareness – this sex act is banned and censored in most forms of adult entertainment, and that fear is reflected outside of the sex industry as well.We believe that sex-positive education, exposure, information, and discussion is an easy cure for this fist-phobia!
Via modelsofcolor.tumblr.com So, what is fisting? Words by Ali. First Time Fisting: A Love Story By Gabby After sex one night, she said, “I want you to fist me.” “Maybe” was my final answer. We started on a Monday night, naked, breathless, armed with information and me adding more fingers upon request. Saturday night, we went for it. Resources via sapphoria.tumblr.com via deviantfemme.tumblr.com. 20 Things You Can Take Away from “The S and M Feminist” Whether You’re Into S and M or Not. Clarisse Thorn is a heterosexual, sex-positive, extremely kinky feminist blogger with some amazing essays on loving pain and women’s rights at the same time. But that doesn’t mean you have to be exactly like Thorn (S&M-oriented, straight, etc) to learn some really amazing things about sex from her new book, “The S&M Feminist.”
I read it and have proclaimed it A Staple. Here’s a list of things you can take away from this wonderful new book, no matter what kind of sex you’re having: 1. You can be a feminist and a masochist at the same time and it’s totes okay! So say you like getting slapped in the face and also equal pay. That’s totally cool! 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7. 8. 9. 10. 11. 12. 13. 14. 15. 16. 17. 18. 19. 20.
This book is such a vast resource that you will undoubtably have a totally different list of 20 top takeaways. 10 Things that New Dominants Should Know, Learn, or at least be Ranted at About - Kenova - FetLife. 10 things a Dominant needs from a submissive - Kenova - FetLife. Why Hands Are Better than Dicks - IPCookieMonster - FetLife. Sexercising For The Guys. Pegging--My Two Cents - IPCookieMonster - FetLife. I'll Validate Your Genderqueer All Night Long, Baby - IPCookieMonster - FetLife.
Are you a good switch or a bad switch? - IPCookieMonster - FetLife. It's Called "Switching" - IPCookieMonster - FetLife. Let's Play Poly Dominoes! - IPCookieMonster - FetLife. Roman butterfly. A Slut's Creed - IPCookieMonster - FetLife. What IS butterfly fisting? - XTube Porn Video - IPCookieMonster. Having Sex With 2 Guys At Once Is The Hottest Thing That Ever Happened to Me. Oh, and I went back to brunette. I worked from home yesterday, and after cleaning out the fridge (with my mouth), I took one of my frequent masturbation breaks.
WHAT? Lesley plays video games during conference calls. I usually just think about something fucked up I once did on loop, but on this day I decided to visit a fine purveyor of pornography for a little visual aid to my self-love session. "You guys horny or something? " Anyway, all this got me thinking about why, in a world where the two-lady threesome is held up as the epitome of male accomplishment, are more women not talking about doing it with two dudes? I want to tell you a story, about a simpler time, when alcohol was for drinking and my vagina was free and untamed by monogamy. I was stymied. Until one of the guys started kissing me, while the other's hand crept up my skirt. Unfortunately, the story has a tragic ending. This isn't to say I haven't had and enjoyed FFM threesomes; I have. Where does a sissy maid find a Mistress ? There are numerous websites you can visit and post up profiles: mercymistress.com collarme.com alt.com clubsissy.com sissify.com however if you truly want to meet a dominant woman who will embrace your sissiness, do these three things. 1. get out.
Move away from the keyboard and go out to events, munches, local clubs. here you will meet people, both submissive and dominants. Maybe one of them knows of someone else who would like you. Or you will meet them in person. 2. accept yourself fully for who you are and what you like. if you are sissy, then be a sissy. don't be afraid to have your hair in ponytails, headbands, barrettes, pigtails, ribbons etc. 3. K. Events We Offer » Galleria Domain 2. GD2 offers a variety of events for our members and their communities.
If you have ever considered visiting or becoming a member of GD2, there has never been a better time! Members Only Weekly, Monthly or Periodically Every Friday, Saturday, and Sunday Night PartiesBound to Learn Peer Rope WorkshopFireside Friday Discussion GroupsHands-on Skills Labs Special Occasion/As Announced Special weeknight eventsTheme nights (Back to School, Dark Night, Military, Rope, Edge Play, etc.)Weekend intensive workshopsValentine’s Day CelebrationNew Year’s Eve Masquerade Ball Free, Open to Everyone 18+ Monthly Newcomers Social: A Meet & Greet and MorePremier Educational Event featuring nationally renowned educators and speakersKinky Drawing ClubLGBTQ Meet & GreetIntro to GD2The Roundtables (co-sponsored with LRA) Master-Mistress/Dominant/TopSlave/Submissive/BottomSwitches As Announced Kinky singles mixersPanel discussionsFilm screeningsTwisted Flea Market Other Groups’ Events Hosted at GD2 TNGC education.
How to Have Lesbian Sex Tips from NSFW Sunday. Every month, straight girls are bombarded with tips regarding how best to sexually please their male partner. But what about girls that want to please girls. Where are our sex tips? OH -- Here. Both from reader submissions and bona-fide experts, here are your Lesbian Sex Tips! General Lesbian Sex Tips "I had to navigate lesbian sex intuitively at first, experimenting with licking here and sucking there and grabbing this and grasping that.
"I only have one tip: Let your hair sort of trace her back longitudinally from her buttcheeks up to her neck, then carry on with whatever. "It's pretty easy to tell if you are pleasing a girl: If her nipples are hard, she is breathing heavily, moaning, not asking you to get out of her bed, etc, then you're probably doing something right. "LOVE what you're doing. "Earlobes, nipples, and the area right below the belly button are direct links to the vagina.
" "Eye contact can seal the deal. " "Feathers are AWESOME. " also: " erogenous zones. Ice. . : knives. Etc. " Part 18: Going Real Time: First moves / Finding your local scene. Dedication:this one's for timid Your teacher today: Mistress160! (unknown provenance) "I'm well nervous about going to a Munch! I've never been to one before. This post is part of the BDSM For Beginners - Going Real Time series, a series about moving into the BDSM Lifestyle.
In this series we'll explore some of the questions you have asked me, including: This post looks at the first point, making your first moves into the lifestyle and how to find your local scene. Remember, don't skip the quotes in red (they may contain questions we then discuss. Shall we begin? "Do you remember when you first started looking for the lifestyle? So you've worked out that you are kinky. The fact that you are reading this post means you have begun to think, as Bob Harris points out, about living the lifestyle. But you've developed this itch that you just can't scratch...
Your cyber friends talk about their experiences at local munches and kinky clubs. *Ms160 fans herself then gets back in teacher mode*... Track 19 - Ode to Female Ejaculation | Seth Walker Poetry. Female Orgasm | The Female Orgasm | Female Orgasms. Hi, it’s me – “the girlfriend! ". My boyfriend asked me to write this section on female orgasm since I'm the one who gets to have them all the time! For most of us, the topic of orgasm can be very controversial. About 10% of us have never even experienced an orgasm at all, and many more struggle to have them regularly and with ease. Even if you frequently orgasm, you may not know that there are many different types of orgasm: g spot orgasms, clitoral orgasms, squirting orgasms, and multiple orgasms.
For an in-depth “primer” on all the different types of orgasm, I recommend this female pleasure ebook.It has over 500 lovemaking and orgasm tips and techniques. Lots of practical, easy to use information. To help you get some practical experience in using your gspot to have better orgasms, I want to invite you to set aside an hour, and try my g spot orgasm exercise. To get some further, more detailed tips on this, you can check out our section on female ejaculation.
Elise Sutton's Female Superiority Page. The purpose of this site is to examine the Female Domination lifestyle. What is Female Domination? Why do men desire Female Domination? How do couples practice Female Domination in today’s society? As we take a closer look at this growing lifestyle, we will discover that Female Domination (or FemDom) is a large tent with many forms and expressions contained therein. To some couples, FemDom is a romantic and sensual lifestyle. Regardless of the flavor, many couples who have embraced some form of FemDom claim to have better marriages and relationships.
I have researched Female Domination and male submission for over twenty-five years. I realize that the D&S community encompasses many different lifestyles and that Female Domination is only one of the flavors of the D&S (or BDSM) community. And what about male submission? But before you get any of my books, please have a look around my site. A site dedicated to Female Domination and male submission within loving and caring relationships Ms. BDSM Educational Book List | The Society of Janus. There are many informative BDSM books that are not fiction, and this is just a sampling that leans heavily toward classics.
All are available on Amazon as a book and on Kindle unless otherwise noted as of winter 2013. The out of print books are worthwhile titles that you might find as used books online or at a kinky flea market. General BDSM Come Hither: A Commonsense Guide To Kinky Sex by Gloria G. Brame, Fireside Consensual Sadomasochism: How To Talk About It and Do It Safely by William A. Different Loving by Gloria Brame, Job Jacobs & Jon Brame, Villard Books Learning the Ropes: A Basic Guide to Safe and Fun S/m Lovemaking by Race Bannon, Daedalus Publishing. The New Bottoming Book by Dossie Easton & Janet Hardy (or Liszt), Greenery Press The New Topping Book by Dossie Easton & Janet Hardy (or Liszt), Greenery Press Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns by Philip Miller & Molly Devon, Mystic Rose Books Sensuous Magic by Pat Califia, Cleis Press. SM 101 by Jay Wiseman, Greenery Press Impact Play.
BDSM Resources: COMPREHENSIVE BDSM SITES. BDSM Resources: DOMINANT FEMALE. BDSM for Beginners (part 7: aftercare for submissives) First published on Mistress160's Abode May 2007 (for penelope, who's been patiently waiting for this one) "[My online Master] does not understand subdrop and leaves me to dealwith it on my own" "I know this is going to sound weird,but I have never needed aftercare" "Aftercare is extremely important to me,as it gives me the reassurance that my Domnot only loves me, but also enjoyed our play" "She took me to the edge of heaven,and then dropped me" Aftercare is one of the most important things you need to learn about BDSM.
As Midori points out, aftercare may not be: "as sexy a topic as say, double handed flogging, Master/slave protocols, suspension bondage, etc ... we know we need it, but we don't dwell on it. Because aftercare is so important I have broken up this "BDSM For Beginners" on aftercare into several posts: Part 7 (this post) will look at aftercare for submissives, and address many questions you have repeatedly sent to me: What exactly do terms like aftercare and subdrop mean?
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On having my consent seriously violated in a bdsm scene... - erinhoudini - FetLife. BDSM - A Look at the Female Style of Domination. BDSM 101: The Basics of Flogging for the New Dominant. BDSM 101 - the Different Types of Submissive Freaks Dominants Can Choose From. BDSM - How to Dominate a Submissive, Even when You Are a New Dominant. BDSM 101 - 4 Hot, Kinky, Sexy Dates for the Submissive Masochist. BDSM 101 - Building a Toy Bag for Yourself for Under $100. BDSM Guide to the First Date. Types of Submissive Men and Women to Avoid When Looking for a Long Term Partner. BDSM Forced Feminization. BDSM - the Meaning of the Collar and Types of Collars. BDSM 101 - the Wonder of Switches. BDSM 101 - How to Pick the Perfect Female Dominant. Real Party Etiquette - or - What They Do NOT Tell You - TheBellaKitty - FetLife.