3 Well-Meaning Assumptions About Women You Never Realized Were Sexist. Source: iStock I was recently talking to a man about a female friend of his, who had just told him about being sexually harassed at work.
He was appalled. He said, “It makes me so mad. She’s this sweet, Midwestern girl without a bad bone in her body. Consent: Not actually that complicated. Dino tea party, by KaffySmaffy on Tumblr A short one today as my life is currently very complicated and conspiring against my preference to spend all of my days working out what to blog.
But do you know what isn’t complicated? Consent. It’s been much discussed recently; what with college campuses bringing in Affirmative Consent rules, and with the film of the book that managed to make lack of consent look sexy raking it in at the box office. This woman just explained consent with the most perfect metaphor : The Loop. Consent.
It’s a powerful word that, for some bizarre reason, is still argued about to this day. It seems many people still don’t really get what “consent” means. As Rockstar Dinosaur Pirate Princess points out, it’s actually a pretty simple concept: “Whoever you are initiating sexytimes with, just make sure they are actually genuinely up for it. 9 Facts That Prove Women Are Not Equal To Men. By Caitlin Abber 21h ago Today is International Women’s Day, which is a day of discussion, reflection, and most importantly, action around women’s issues and causes.
A Suggestion For All Heterosexual Men About How Women Feel. It was in the boys’ locker room of my high school that I learned the true meaning of homophobia.
I took a weightlifting class my senior year, and one day after I was standing around talking with a couple of guys I ran cross country with. The subject of homosexuals came up, and one of them said something that’s stuck with me ever since. Official trailer for college rape documentary The Hunting Ground. “No means yes, yes means anal!”: This new film will change how you think about rape culture. There is nothing subtle about “The Hunting Ground,” a new documentary about sexual violence on campus.
The film starts with a montage of elated young people finding out that they are officially college bound. Happy tears are cried. Proud parents exchange hugs. Director Kirby Dick and producer Amy Ziering, the team behind “The Invisible War,” are setting you up to knock you down. Hard. The Hunting Ground (2015) Stop Asking Already: 6 Reasons Why Intimate Partner Violence Survivors Stay in Their Relationships. Trigger Warning: This article contains detailed descriptions of intimate partner violence, including physical assault, sexual assault, and victim-blaming.
6 Things Women Are Tired of Encountering in the Media. How Gender Double Standards Cause The Wage Gap. Why Girls Today Think Sexual Harassment Is Normal Stuff. You Don't Have to Hate Women to Be Sexist: Everyday Ways You May Be Sexist Without Knowing It. So you’re a man and you consider yourself an awesome ally to women.
You may even identify as a feminist and actively work to further the movement’s goals. Why Bathing in Male Tears Doesn't Mean I'm Anti-Man. This has been cross-posted with permission from Daily Life.
Whenever feminists try to discuss issues pertaining to violence against women, oppression and outright misogyny, we’re often met with tedious ‘whataboutery’ and ‘not all men’ responses from people who find it uncomfortable to have their privilege reflected back at them and critiqued. But there’s a special breed of person known as a Men’s Rights Activist (or MRA) who likes to go one step further.
These people like to talk about something called ‘misandry’, which translates to the not-technically-made-up-but-completely-powerless ‘hatred of men’. MRAs will have you believe that misandry is: a) rampant within the feminist community and b) capable of causing equal if not greater harm to men than millennia of oppression and disadvantage could ever possibly do to women.
If the reactions of frothing, faceless MRAs who hide behind fake avatars and even faker names are anything to go by, ironic misandry is hitting them where it hurts. Ironic misandry: Why feminists joke about drinking male tears and banning all men. Slate.com - Why "I Bathe In Male Tears" is the new "This... Black Man Brings White Girlfriend Into Harlem Barbershop. Watch What Happens Next. Woman Wears Hidden Camera to Show How Many Times She Gets Harassed ft. David So. Upworthy. Projet Crocodiles. Le sexisme et le cinéma, l’éternel combat. Why Sexual Assault Survivors Stay Quiet. 6 Things You Might Not Think Are Harassment, But Definitely Are. Trigger Warning: This article contains references to rape, sexual assault, and sexual harassment.
Editor’s Note: Because of the racist undertones of the video in question, Everyday Feminism has removed the link to its source. Also, while this cross-published article focuses on the ways in which women are targeted for street harassment under a patriarchal system, Everyday Feminism recognizes that queer, trans, and gender non-conforming people also experience street harassment. Originally published on Bustle and cross-posted here with their permission. I never cease to be astounded by the way that some people react to stories of harassment in the street. Just yesterday, Bustle shared a story about a woman who taped herself walking around New York for 10 hours and the unsolicited harassment she was subjected to as she strolled around, minding her own business. No. Women are victims of sexual violence every single day, even in “liberal” cities like New York.
6 Ways to Respond to Sexist Microaggressions in Everyday Conversations. Stop au processus d’auto-victimisation. L ‘auto-victimisation est un processus psychique ou l’individu se positionne dans une place de victime. Victime de son entourage, victime de sa hiérarchie, de ses collègues… On peut tous, un jour ou l’autre, se positionner en victime alors que la voie de sortie est de comprendre là où l’on a été victime, là où doit cesser de l’être. La victimisation personnelle : une maladie du 21ème siècle ? La victimisation, comprise ici comme une tendance à l’apitoiement sur son sort, est l’un des blocages psychologiques les plus importants que nous puissions affronter en tant qu’individus. Quand un obstacle survient, entraînant remise en question et prise de conscience de nos limites matérielle à un moment T, nous tendons en effet très souvent à adopter un point de vue négatif, reposant sur un certain degré de fatalisme et de pessimisme.
L’échec impacte toujours notre état d’esprit, nous ne pouvons le nier. The plight of the bitter nerd: Why so many awkward, shy guys end up hating feminism. I feel your pain, bitter, lonely, nerdy guys. I really do. It sounds corny to say it like that, but I don’t know how to say it and be believed. I know that because, having experienced this emotion from the inside for most of my life, I sure as hell resisted believing it when I heard people saying it.
There’s no one more resistant to being empathized with or more prone to call attempts to do so “patronizing” than the bitter lonely guy, especially when women try to do it but even when other nerdy guys try to reach out. People like Captain Awkward and Dr. I’ve tried to write sympathetically about this stuff in the past: the guilt, the shame, the constant feelings of inadequacy. Psittacisme. Définition, traduction, prononciation, anagramme et synonyme sur le dictionnaire libre Wiktionnaire. 9 Stunning Photos of 'Butches' That Shatter Society's Stereotypes About Masculinity. What does your masculinity look like? Vancouver-based photographer and self-proclaimed "gender terrorist" S.D. Holman gives us an answer with BUTCH: Not like the other girls, a photography project that delves into female masculinity and demonstrates that the "butch" identity is very much alive and well in 2014.
What this project affirms, as Holman told Mic in an interview, is that "masculinity is not, and has never been, the sole domain of men. " Female masculinity, while celebrated in the more marginalized, queer cultures, is more often stigmatized in mainstream culture. "Pop culture would have us believe there is no place for butches," Holman told Mic. Yoko Ono - Cut Piece (1965) 13 Questions That Men Never Have to Ask Themselves.
Morning: a man shuffles out of a cab in last night’s rumpled suit, holding a pair of dress shoes in his hands that have begun to pinch. The neighbors stare. This is the walk of shame. Afternoon: a man skips lunch and pops three aspirin before heading into the waxing salon, preparing to endure searing pain for a clean, hairless nether region. This is the beauty routine. Heather Petty — igperish: Aziz Ansari is a Feminist I love... Pourquoi le mot humanisme ne peut remplacer le mot féminisme. Vous allez retrouver, ces prochaines semaines, d'anciens articles que je ré-écris, n'en soyez donc pas étonné-e-s. An Idiot's Guide to Free Speech. I think you forgot another important one: no site is obliged to publish your comments. That is, deleting offensive comments from blogs/ websites is not censorship.
Blogs are privately owned and the owners are allowed to dictate the rules on the kind of comments they allow. Flagged I'm just going to reply to bump this up to the top of the conversation. You Don't Have to Hate Women to Be Sexist: Everyday Ways You May Be Sexist Without Knowing It. Bobandrace.png (685×527) Alexandre Dumas et la convention naturaliste - Une heure de peine... . When Jews Dominated Professional Basketball. By Lisa Wade, PhD, Nov 25, 2013, at 07:00 pm Kids growing up in dense, urban environments often turn to basketball as their sport of choice. This is partly because it fits, in a physical sense. All things being equal, a basketball court takes up a lot less room than a football or soccer field.
For the economically disadvantaged, it’s also relatively cheap to play. If you have a court available, you only need a pair of shoes and a ball. Bobandrace.png (PNG Image, 685 × 527 pixels) Le racisme comme système - Une heure de peine... Le sexisme anti-hommes... et pourquoi il n'existe pas. Violence conjugale, violence de genre. Partout au monde, les femmes représentent l'immense majorité des victimes de violence conjugale: en ce sens, la violence conjugale est une violence de genre, sans doute la pire. En février 2006, une conférence interministérielle a adopté pour la Belgique une définition unique des violences conjugales. Victimes - Trousse média sur la violence conjugale => non-équivalence H/F 2. Facteurs de risque - Trousse média sur la violence conjugale. Conjoints ayant des comportements violents - Trousse média sur la violence conjugale.
Conjoints ayant des comportements violents - Trousse média sur la violence conjugale. De quoi parle-t-on? - Trousse média sur la violence conjugale. Mythes et réalités - Trousse média sur la violence conjugale. Accueil - Trousse média sur les agressions sexuelles. Accueil - Trousse média sur la violence conjugale. TEST. A quel point êtes-vous sexiste ? Le sexisme anti-hommes... et pourquoi il n'existe pas. BOOB WARS AND DRAGON CROWNS (Jimquisition) Sexual Harassment at ComicCon! ft. David So. Un pavé dans la mare 7 : l'humour. Des fans de GTA V réclament le retrait de la Bible et de "50 nuances de Grey" des magasins. Mon viol, et le policier qui a tout aggravé. Agression antisémite d'un couple à Créteil : trois hommes mis en examen. No, women aren't as likely to commit violence as men.
Selfie Klip. Ungarische Polizei: DU bist selbst schuld an Vergewaltigung. Victimes de viol? C est de votre faute, dit la police. Analogie viol victim blaming. Petite leçon de sexisme ordinaire, par Nicolas Kalogeropoulos. La Suède cherche un mot pour désigner la masturbation féminine. Un drame familial se termine par un coup de fusil dans les rues de Grenoble. Guillaume Leroy: Réflexions autour du concept d’homme battu. Pour perpétuer sa domination, le patriarcat fait croire que les femmes sont aussi violentes que les hommes. Anna Kendrick Says People Have To 'Fight Back And Own' The Word 'Feminist' 5 Tips For Being An Ally. La sensation je fais ce que je veux : dire aux femmes qu'êtres libres c'est montrer ses attributs sexualisés. Reprocher aux femmes de montrer ces attributs sexualisés. Départ : la "liberté" des hommes est passée par la mise à nu des corps des femmes.
Why Attacking Dr. Matt Taylor and #ShirtGate Belittles Feminism. Julien blanc #howtomakeherstay. Pour Cécile de Ménibus, Rocco Siffredi est ''une sous-merde''