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7 Signs You're In Love With The Wrong Person. Huffingtonpost. 4 Reasons Why Relationships End. My ex-boyfriend recently reached out and perhaps that’s why I thought it was appropriate to ask him a few questions.

4 Reasons Why Relationships End.

Being fairly blunt I dove right in—I wanted to understand something that was kind of touchy and hoped for honesty. Which one of the three items below is missing when someone says good-bye but at the same time continues feeling the other two feelings for the person they are leaving? Perhaps for the rest of his or her life. 21 Unexpected Ways to Say I Love You. ~ Isabel Abbott. 1.

21 Unexpected Ways to Say I Love You. ~ Isabel Abbott

Treasure maps. Make them yourself, lines and roads and rivers and words drawn in ink on paper. Maps for the heart, or the apartment, or the city, or the psyche, treasure waiting to be found. 10 Tips: If the Buddha gave Dating Advice. Via Amy Baglanon Aug 22, 2015 If the Buddha Gave Dating Tips.

10 Tips: If the Buddha gave Dating Advice.

Sometimes I wonder what it would be like to have the ancient wisdom of the Buddha to guide me through the dating process. I often refer to the book, If the Buddha Dated: A Handbook for Finding Love on a Spiritual Path, by Charlotte Kasl, PhD, for my relationship-seeking needs. Thing is, if the Buddha did give dating tips, they might be a little confusing to us modern-day folks.

10 Ways to Master the Art of Talking Dirty. {Adult} One of the most powerful ways to keep sexual attention high and our partner’s interest alive is through the brain: by mastering the art of seductive communication.

10 Ways to Master the Art of Talking Dirty. {Adult}

Often, we can have insecurities surrounding our sex life, purely down to lack of communication to confirm if what we are doing feels right or wrong for our partner. Opening up and discovering how erotic talking dirty can be, may be exactly what is needed to keep both sex drives high and uncover each others deepest fantasies. Talking dirty doesn’t have to be all about using words that push outside the comfort zone, it is just a term for talking to one another intimately about what we are thinking and feeling sexually. Nonmonogamy251. You Don't Need A Man, You Need a Goddamn Warrior. Get elephant's newsletter Warning: naughty language ahead!

You Don't Need A Man, You Need a Goddamn Warrior.

To my sweet wild woman, I know why it hasn’t worked out with anyone else—you don’t need a man, but a goddamn warrior. You are the strength of Turkish coffee at sunrise darlin’ and don’t try to pretend that you’re not. You are one of the wild ones, and no matter how you tried to hide that fact, you can’t be anything other than what you are—and that’s okay. 7 Signs You Have A Toxic Friendship. Few things are more difficult than realizing that you're caught up in a toxic friendship — the kind of friendship that has a negative effect on your happiness and mental well-being.

7 Signs You Have A Toxic Friendship

Occasionally, there will be a glaring and concrete epiphany that will help you realize that your friendship is unhealthy — like, say, if your friend hooks up with your significant other. But since life isn't a TV show, it's far more likely that the signs that your friendship is damaging will be subtle and ongoing. The Deal Breaker Questions. ~ Susan McFadzean. Via Susan McFadzean on Apr 17, 2014 When a relationship is at a crossroads and I’m not sure whether things will work out for whatever reason, it helps me to ask very personalized deal breaker questions.

The Deal Breaker Questions. ~ Susan McFadzean

I have been lucky enough to formulate these questions through my different relationships. It’s important to me to use these as a reference to my own idea of how I want to live my life—ethically, spiritually, mentally and physically. I think that everyone should have their own set of deal-breaker questions that they at least consider from time to time, especially when they are in a new relationship.

These are like the alarm bells of time wasting in relationships—a way to see whether you’re in it for the long haul or will you be unwilling to get past these things once the honeymoon phase is over. My absolute #1 deal breaker question: Does the person like/want to have pets? I probably won’t have dinner on the table by seven and his socks darned. I'm Sorry I Love You Too Much.

Love isn’t static.

I'm Sorry I Love You Too Much.

It swirls around you like balmy air sent up from the south. The wind catches your hair, and a few strands stick in the moist crease of your lips. You reach with your hand to move it, but you don’t have to because he gets there first and brushes it aside. He gently touches your cheek with his slightly coarse fingertips (from working on his bikes in the garage). 7 Signs You're In Love With An Old Soul. Old souls make for incredible partners in relationships.

7 Signs You're In Love With An Old Soul

They have profound perspective and conduct their lives in ways no one else does. What does it mean for you when you love an old soul? 1. I Realized My Best Friend was Emotionally Abusing Me…Then She Dumped Me. I started University with great optimism about all the new people I would meet and in particular I was positive I would connect with the “best friend” I so badly wanted.

I Realized My Best Friend was Emotionally Abusing Me…Then She Dumped Me

It almost seemed like a dream come true when I met Isabelle on that vast campus. We seemed to have so much in common and, best of all, she wanted to be my friend. Often, I would return from an evening with Isabelle frustrated and angry. How To Keep Her. You have her attention and now she has yours. You’re falling in love with her (yes, that’s what’s happening) and you sense a change. You know she’s deciding if she’s going to continue to water this garden, or move on.

You know she’s going to tell you soon because that’s how she is. Dating a Man, Not a Boy: What Grown-Up Love Looks Like. Get elephant's newsletter Grown-up love is something everyone wants, but not everyone knows how to reach it. The thing about grown-up love is this—we are not going to be able to get it until we learn to be grown up ourselves! Five Signs of True Love. Watch a movie, listen to a song, read a romance novel. They all give you the ooey gooey, rip your heart out, kind of love. Those illusions are more speed bumps on the way to the real deal. Sign number one: True love has no time limit. Whether you meet and its kismet or a long, torturous on again/off again courtship, when the seeds of true love have been planted it can take its own sweet time to sprout. Lessons from a Broken Promise & a Broken Heart. Via Megan Harrodon Oct 11, 2015 Today is a five-year relationship anniversary that I celebrate on my own. 18 months ago, I left my husband. Today, I am not mourning the loss of a love that was promised to be forever.

Instead, I’m celebrating the gifts I’ve received from having loved and been loved. Huffingtonpost. Huffingtonpost. Love is not Enough. Via Catherine Hummelon Oct 11, 2015. The Beauty in Goodbye. “The story of life is quicker than the wink of an eye, the story of love is hello and goodbye…until we meet again” ~ Jimi Hendrix. Marry a Man who Touches You. How to Love Yourself When You Don't Know How To Be Loved. ~ Tui Anderson. Let's Get Intimate: The Ins & Outs of Anal Sex. {Adult Q&A} Do you have questions about creating intimacy or developing mindful relationships? Confusing questions? Awkward ones? Deep, dark scary ones? How to Break Up with a Narcissist. My Best Sex Ever. Via Bill Hurleyon Oct 8, 2015.

Dear Lover: Five Simple Things I Wish You Would Do For Me. ~ Freya Watson. Why I Stayed: A Letter to my Ex. You know what really bothers me, after all this time and even after your death? 7 Things to Bear in Mind When Communicating With a Man. I did not know how to properly communicate with the men in my life. I’ve had my share of blunders through sheer ignorance and stupidity. As a result, I’ve read countless sex and relationship books, especially the ones pointing out the differences in the way men and women communicate. As a sexologist, I’ve been privileged to have had front-row insights into the inner workings and thinking of men. How to Love a Strong & Complicated Woman. How to Remove Attachments to Past Relationships. 8 Things I Am Too Old For  7 Possible Reasons Why He Can’t Get Hard. {Adult} 5 Warning Signs You’ve Met Your False Twin Flame. 10 Ways to be Sensual Without Being Sexual. "What Made Me Fall in Love"—Men Share what Captured their Hearts.

12 Ways to Know if a Man (or Woman) Will Make you Feel Emotionally Secure. Huffingtonpost. 4 Stages of Cheating & When It's Warranted. Huffingtonpost. When You Love a Mending Woman. Is Your Relationship Falling Apart? These Are The 3 Main Reasons Why. Huffingtonpost. I Had An Emotional Affair With The High-School Boyfriend Who Found Me on Facebook and It Was the Wake-Up Call I Needed. How Do we Know if we Love Someone? ~ John Kim. 5 Radical Ways People Do Non-Monogamy That You Need to Know About. 18 Relationship Red Flags Every Woman Should Know. 10 Things that Tank Any Relationship. ~ B. McClaskey. Huffingtonpost. 10 Tiny Things In A Relationship That Are Literally A Big Deal. 8 Signs Your Relationship Is Built To Last  Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Gaslighting: The Mind Game Everyone should Know About. The Toxic Attraction Between an Empath & a Narcissist. Ending the Rollercoaster of Drama with a Narcissist or Sociopath.

Empaths. Relationship Bewilderment – Empath vs Narcissist? The Giving Persona or People Pleaser. The Emotionally Dissociated Hero. Elaine La Joie, Shaman and Empath. 5 Signs You Might be in an Emotionally Draining Relationship. 10 Incredible Facts About Cuddling That Will Impress You. Huffingtonpost. 28 Things I Now Know About Life, Work and Relationships at 28  How To Stop People From Emotionally Manipulating You. 10 Toxic People You Shouldn't Bring With You Into The New Year. 13 Ways Children of Divorce Deal Differently with Love  The 3 Signs You’ve Found Your Soul Mate. 11 Things No One Tells Guys With Depression. A broken Heart isn’t Something you “Get Over” – Understanding The Releasing Process.

10 Things Emotionally-Intelligent People Do Not Do  My Husband Was Named in the Ashley Madison Hack  5 Things Done Differently in Healthy Relationships. ~ Laura Brown. The Best Advice I Ever Got About Love. Five Signs of True Love. 3 Lies that Make our Relationships Suck & How to Tell the Truth. Elephant Love: Loneliness, Dating & Relationships. Why Do Some of Our Best Friends Become Strangers? De_la_liberte. De la liberté de pensée et de discussion. Par John Stuart Mill. La décence, chèr-e-s blanch-e-s...(3ème partie) 5 Phrases The Happiest Couples Use To Stay Crazy In Love  Nonviolent Communication Training Course Marshall Rosenberg CNVC org. Marshall Rosenberg: The Cause of Anger. Marshall Rosenberg: Love & Clear Requests. Marshall Rosenberg: Feelings vs. Thoughts. Définition de la communication non violente (CNV)

La Communication NonViolente. Ressources/Documentation. Communication non-violente (Rosenberg) Rage (émotion) Colère. Huffingtonpost. 14 Signs You're In A Good Relationship. - InspireMore. Huffingtonpost. EPE - Sensibilisation à la CNV : croyances et formes pensées. Thomas d'Ansembourg - Revue de presse. Communication non violente avec Marshall Rosenberg en français.1. Guy Corneau- atelier: Cessez d etre gentil soyez vrai. Les Bases de la Communication Non-Violente (CNV) - Rosenberg - 1.1.