After Care - Album on Imgur. Kinky Sex: 6 Science-Backed Benefits Of BDSM. It’s no secret the trilogy and impending release of the movie Fifty Shades of Grey has sparked our curiosity of the taboo 6-for-4 deal acronym: Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, Submission, Sadism and Masochism, also known as BDSM or S&M. Kinky sex has been defined not by what it is but by what it’s not, and unfortunately, that means others' misconceptions about couples who follow this lifestyle. BDSM is not only a gateway for sexual experimentation that steers away from “vanilla” sex; it can also lead to physical and mental health benefits. Americans have been feeding their sexual appetite with BDSM far more than the rest of the world. Thirty-six percent of adults in the U.S. use masks, blindfolds, and bondage tools during sex, according to a survey by Durex, compared to only 20 percent worldwide. Dr. Here are six other reasons why it may be time to take a pass on vanilla sex. 1. Couples who practice BDSM tend to fare better than non-kinky couples when it comes to communication. 2. 3. 4.
Breath control: Safety - Wipipedia. Breath control is the process of limiting or restricting air and/or the supply of oxygen to the brain. Cautionary essay THE MEDICAL REALITIES OF BREATH CONTROL PLAY by Jay Wiseman, author of "SM 101: A Realistic Introduction" For some time now, I have felt that the practices of suffocation and/or strangulation done in an erotic context (generically known as breath control play; more properly known as asphyxiophilia) were in fact far more dangerous than they are generally perceived to be. As a person with years of medical education and experience, I know of no way whatsoever that either suffocation or strangulation can be done in a way that does not intrinsically put the recipient at risk of cardiac arrest. (There are also numerous additional risks; more on them later.) Furthermore, and my biggest concern, I know of no reliable way to determine when such a cardiac arrest has become imminent. Often the first detectable sign that an arrest is approaching is the arrest itself.
Regards, See Also. Switch. So much of the BDSM world is defined by and individual’s label — Dominant, Submissive, Fetishist, Slave, Bottom or Top. These tags, titles, or definitions help members of the BDSM community to relate appropriately to their counterparts. Although some individuals present as either naturally dominant or naturally submissive, others lean more towards both or neither, switching roles according to whim. To give an idea of the comparative popularity of switching, FetLife.com boasts a switches’ group of more than 6,000 members worldwide, compared with more than 13,000 in the biggest dominant group and more than 8,000 in the biggest submissive group.
For this article’s purposes, a “switch” will refer to someone who participates in BDSM activities sometimes as a top and other times as a bottom or in the case of dominance and submission sometimes as a dominant and other times as a submissive. Still, that basic definition takes in a variety of situations. Sound hot to you? Over 18? BDSMGeek. PBF266-Caught.png (PNG Image, 850 × 1506 pixels) - Scaled (66%)
BDSM Glossary. This glossary is a guide to many of the terms you might hear in the BDSM community. Not everyone who is involved with BDSM is into everything listed here; many of the practices described in the Glossary are quite rare. If you see something described in here which isn't to your tastes, it doesn't mean that you aren't or can't be interested in BDSM. The definitions given here reflect the usage I am most familiar with. Some terms contain commentary; anything following the word Commentary indicates my own views on a particular subject, and should not be assumed to be part of the formal definition.Links in the definitions will take you to other definitions on this page unless the links are in »angle quotes«, in which case they will take you off this page.
Comments or additions? 24/7: Colloquial Of or related to a total power exchange relationship. ABASIOPHILIA: Psychology Sexual attraction to people in or who use wheelchairs, casts, braces, or other orthopedic fixtures. BIMMY: See sennet whip.
D/s. BDSM Scenarios and Kinky Sex Ideas. Adding realism to scenariosMany scenarios include the submissive being taken by "force". One fun technique that can make this more fun is to buy cheap clothing from a thrift store that can be torn, sliced, or cut off the submissive. Cheap, disposable clothing can lend a fun air of realism to the scenario. Extended BondageFor people who like bondage, one thing that can be fun is to have the submissive sleep bound. This is most easily done if the submissive's hands and feet are bound together; extended bondage in one position (as, for example, if the submissive were tied to the bed) can become quite uncomfortable.
Note that if you do this, you should not leave the submissive in a room alone, and you should bind the submissive in a way which can be released quickly in case the house catches fire ! There are many techniques involving D/s in a public space, particularly where feelings of vulnerability are created. Distance need not be a barrier to sexuality. BDSM: What's with switching, anyway?