Drew Gerald - Why Remarkable Sex Has Nothing To Do With What You do In Bed - You were not born knowing how to be a remarkable lover – no one was. You didn’t just wake up one day and know how to satisfy your partner in bed and have deeply fulfilling relationships. And if you’re honest with yourself, you still don’t have it all figured out. Nobody sat you down at 5 years old and gave you a buffet of sexual values and paths to let you choose from. And if you’re like most people, you grew up in a culture where sex was taboo and you didn’t really know what to believe. There was confusion and even levels of obfuscation about what was the “right” way to approach your sexuality. Chances are if you’re reading this, you’ve been on the path of personal development and have heard of different sexual paradigms.
That instead of focusing on just the spiritual aspects or just the physical aspects, included it all without conflict? Neither have I. But why me? And I did. Note I didn’t say IGNORE the physical and ONLY focus on the spiritual – that’s just as neglectful. Comments. Tantric Sex. Do you ever feel as if your sex life is stuck in a rut? Before you blame yourself or your partner for your lackluster lovemaking, you might want to give tantric sex a try. What is Tantric Sex? "Tantra is about consciousness and awareness," says Johanina Wikoff, Ph.D., a tantra lecturer and therapist in San Francisco, CA, and author of The Complete Idiot's Guide to the Kama Sutra (Macmillan, 2000). "Rather than saying you should try different sexual positions or give up certain things, tantra says: do the things you enjoy, but do them with awareness," she explains.
"Having a deep connection with a partner can help individuals become more relaxed and have better sexual functioning," says Linda Banner, Ph.D., a sex therapist at the University of California San Francisco-Stanford Sexual Health Medicine Program. "Tantric sex is more of a holistic connection than a purely physiological one. It involves the mind, body and spirit," she adds. How to Last Longer in Bed. Yoga Poses for Better Sex - Yoga Poses That Improve Sex - Womans Day. Recharge Your Relationship in One Weekend. Sex Tips to Turn Her On: Mens Health. Most bedroom problems boil down to this: Men are microwaves and women are slow cookers. With men, all you have to do is push a few buttons and we"re hotter than a habanero.
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