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I’m Done With Being A 'Good' Mom. ‘It's the breaking of a taboo’: the parents who regret having children. 6 facts about American fathers. As the American family changes, fatherhood is changing in important and sometimes surprising ways.

6 facts about American fathers

Today, fathers who live with their children are taking a more active role in caring for them and helping out around the house. And the ranks of stay-at-home and single fathers have grown significantly in recent decades. At the same time, more and more children are growing up without a father in the home. The changing role of fathers has introduced new challenges as dads juggle the competing demands of family and work. Women more than men adjust their careers for family life. For working parents in the U.S., the challenge of juggling careers and family life continues to be a front-burner issue – one that is being recognized by a growing number of employers who have adopted family-friendly policies such as paid leave.

Women more than men adjust their careers for family life

But while few Americans want to see a return to traditional roles of women at home and men in the workplace, one reality persists: Women most often are the ones who adjust their schedules and make compromises when the needs of children and other family members collide with work, Pew Research Center data show. In a 2013 survey, we found that mothers were much more likely than fathers to report experiencing significant career interruptions in order to attend to their families’ needs. Part of this is due to the fact that gender roles are lagging behind labor force trends. Another factor is the way that society views the bond between mothers and their children. Interview: Rebecca Traister, Author Of 'All The Single Ladies'

According to the U.S.

Interview: Rebecca Traister, Author Of 'All The Single Ladies'

Census, single adult women now outnumber married adult women in America. Oivind Hovland/Ikon Images/Getty Images hide caption toggle caption Oivind Hovland/Ikon Images/Getty Images According to the U.S. Is This Cheating Or An Open Relationship? “Give me another baby, and I’ll let you cheat on me.”

Is This Cheating Or An Open Relationship?

Well, crap, when you put it that way, it sounds like a soap opera plot. But according to the New York Post, many couples are pushing the boundaries of the contract of marriage in just this way. While open relationships are nothing new, the Post examines a few unusual examples of "infidelity clauses," or, as they put it, women who "let their husbands cheat. " Relationship coach Suzie Johnson recently counseled a couple through the very decision above, and says, “They agreed to a weekend amnesty, where the guy can do what he wants for just one weekend a year.

In return, she gets the bigger family she craved.” The Post names a few examples of couples who stick together after someone has "strayed," but they completely confuse consensual open relationships with a couple choosing to stay together after somebody cheats. What An Anti-Feminist Student Taught Me About Feminism: BUST True Story. “Looking into the origins of western feminism, in every case the women who were ‘stirring up the hornets’ nest’ were considered a bit odd.

What An Anti-Feminist Student Taught Me About Feminism: BUST True Story

In a short amount of time, a very small group of ‘men hating’ women skewed the minds of content and happy women everywhere and made them think that they were being treated ‘unfairly.’” This is a real sentence written by a real student at a New England university. American policy fails at reducing child poverty because it aims to fix the poor. Kindergarten students play at Guilford Elementary School in Loudoun County, Va.

American policy fails at reducing child poverty because it aims to fix the poor

Due to high rates of poverty, Title I schools like Guilford receive special federal funding to provide full-day kindergarten classes. (Photo by Evelyn Hockstein/For The Washington Post) From the first federal social welfare program for Civil War widows to Social Security and the 1960s War on Poverty, government support for poor families in the United States has attempted to enforce a moral hierarchy based on marriage: Widows got pensions they were considered to have earned, for example, while single mothers got shame and stigma for their moral misdeeds. Since the 1960s, as marriage rates have fallen and women’s employment opportunities have improved, fewer and fewer women rely on husbands for their material needs. Now, the majority of children no longer depend primarily on the income of a married father. One wonders if the money could have been better spent.

How parents balance work and family when both work: 5 key findings. Today’s American families are more likely than those of past decades to feature two full-time working parents.

How parents balance work and family when both work: 5 key findings

A new Pew Research Center report looks at how working moms and dads in two-parent households are balancing their jobs with their family responsibilities and how they view the dynamics of sharing child care and household responsibilities. Here are some key findings from the report: A Thank You Note To My Sex Ed Teacher.

Sexual education is often a defining experience in a person’s life.

A Thank You Note To My Sex Ed Teacher

It usually (hopefully) happens at the beginning of adolescence, a time when a person is extremely impressionable and let’s face it, if sex ed is ignored or done poorly, it can be detrimental to your sexual health and attitude toward sex for the rest of your life. Up until recently, I hadn’t really given much thought to the importance of sex ed, and I’ve determined that it’s because my experience with sexual education was just absolutely top-of-the-line. So good in fact, that hearing what other people got for sex ed in middle and high school down right shocked me.

Since this discovery, I’ve been thinking nonstop about what made my experience so positive and realized it was all thanks to one woman. I went to all girls school, and I received a full week of sexual education in science class every year. Why I Won't Call Myself 'Childfree' If you’re unfamiliar with the Childfree Movement, it’s a group of individuals and couples who have intentionally made the decision not to have children.

Why I Won't Call Myself 'Childfree'

They picked the term “childfree” instead of “childless” because the latter implies a life of wanting; a gnawing mortal sorrow pocked by regret and loneliness. If you think that’s dramatic, you’ve never been accosted about your choice not to procreate. Will This Powerful Campaign Make Men Do More Laundry? The laundry detergent brand Ariel India has launched a campaign called #ShareTheLoad encouraging men to help in household work.

Will This Powerful Campaign Make Men Do More Laundry?

It's a much-needed message: a study by the brand found that 73% of Indian women felt their husbands prioritize relaxing over helping with housework, and 2/3 of Indian women felt that an inequality exists with housework. According to Ejaz Ghani, a U.N. economic advisor, "Despite recent economic advances, India’s gender balance for entrepreneurship remains among the lowest in the world. Improving this balance is an important step for India’s development and its achievement of greater economic growth and gender equality. " The campaign started out by engaging in the conversation and asking #IsLaundryOnlyAWomansJob. The conversation spiked interest and resulted in a social media challenge called "The Wash Bucket Challenge," featuring men taking photos of themselves with wash loads of laundry. 'Women are just better at this stuff': is emotional labor feminism's next fro...

We remember children’s allergies, we design the shopping list, we know where the spare set of keys is. We multi-task. We know when we’re almost out of Q-tips, and plan on buying more. We are just better at remembering birthdays. We love catering to loved ones, and we make note of what they like to eat. We notice people’s health, and force friends and family to go see the doctor. We listen to our partner’s woes, forgive them the absences, the forgetfulness, the one-track mindedness while we’re busy organizing a playdate for the kids. But what if, much like childcare and house keeping, the sum of this ongoing emotional management is yet another form of unpaid labor? Has your marriage lasted 50 years? Congratulations, you’re old. Just kidding: Congratulations, you’re old and have had a long marriage. The Washington Post magazine has a feature out today called “The secret to a long-lasting marriage.”

I don’t have a general comment on it, because I only made it to the third paragraph, and it’s probably worth reading. Fathers and Childless Women in Academia Are 3x More Likely to Get Tenure Than Women With Kids. Women more than men adjust their careers for family life. Huffingtonpost. WATCH: Omaha Parents Say LGBT-Inclusive Sex Ed 'Rapes Students Of Their Innoc... Opponents of New Curriculum Compare Lessons on Sexual Orientation, Gender Identity to Giving Kids Alcohol Change the conversation, change the world Share this LGBT-inclusive sex education "rapes children of their innocence" and is comparable to giving alcoholics booze, according to parents who spoke Monday during a three-hour debate over proposed new curriculum standards in Omaha, Nebraska. The proposed standards, which represent Omaha Public Schools' first attempt to revise its sex ed curriculum in 30 years, include lessons about LGBT issues, social media, bullying and sexual harassment, according to a report in The Washington Post.

Class Differences in Child-Rearing Are on the Rise. Photo The lives of children from rich and poor American families look more different than ever before. Well-off families are ruled by calendars, with children enrolled in ballet, soccer and after-school programs, according to a new Pew Research Center survey. There are usually two parents, who spend a lot of time reading to children and worrying about their anxiety levels and hectic schedules. In poor families, however, children tend to spend their time at home or with extended family, the survey found.

When childcare costs more than rent, fewer women choose to work. Berlin: People Shouldn’t Have to Spend More Than a Third of Their Income on Rent. On Silence As A Tool For Queer Families. NationalJournal. My son has been suspended five times. He’s 3. This school teaches Korean dads 'how to hug' Working moms have more successful daughters and more caring sons, Harvard Bus... I was raised with a skewed sense of the way money worked. My father seemed to always have it in abundance–largely through illicit means that I wasn’t supposed to talk about. Kids Develop Better Language Skills When Dad Does The Bedtime Story Scary Mommy. Paul Ryan, Opponent of Paid Family Leave, Demands Congress Respect His Need f... Redefining 'Boys Will Be Boys' In One Tender Photo - Colbert Mocks One Million Moms Over Heartwarming Campbell's Soup Gay Dads Ad. Women Can Have It All... In Iceland. Judge Berates Domestic Violence Victim—and Then Sends Her to Jail. His aggregation site has made him rich and infamous, but was a Supreme Court justice right to tell Matt Drudge that, professionally, he was living on borrowed time?

'Glorifying Unnatural Marriage': One Million Moms Steaming Hot Over Campbell'... One Million Moms is attacking Campbell's over an adorable ad that features real gay dads with their real son. Hospitals Still Don't Give Moms Enough Support For Breast-Feeding. Voletta Bonner, of Highland Park, Mich., says she was pleased with the breast-feeding support she received at St. John Hospital in Detroit after the birth of her daughter, Riley Johnson. Huffingtonpost. The big father figure lie: Race, the Kardashians and the latest war on Black ... My Husband And I Chose To Be Child-Free. Here's What No One Understands.

The Truth About Poor People's Eating Habits Will Surprise You. Men, don’t be embarrassed if you’d rather make less money to be at home more. Fathers Who Serve as the Primary Parent. Quebec gave all parents cheap day care — and their kids were worse off as a r... Children don't ruin women's careers — husbands do, Harvard study finds. Why Paid Leave Matters for the Future of Business. 50 Years After the Moynihan Report, Examining the Black Family in the Age of ... Amazing Village Was Made Just For People With Dementia. Finland is really good at keeping babies alive. Here's one reason why. Conservatives don’t have happier marriages. There's a Type of Domestic Abuse That the Media Never Talks About. Judge Rules Nebraska's Ban on Gay and Lesbian Foster Parents Unconstitutional. Netflix Now Giving Employees 'Unlimited' Maternity, Paternity Leave. History of gender: 1950s quiz for girls on careers and marriage.

Policy fails to account for complex families: children pay price. The total fertility rate, with instructions, in 9 minutes. The Daddy Wars: The Work/Family Problem We SHOULD Be Talking About  Why Is the Face of Marriage Equality So White? New Study Gives Women Just One More Reason to Reconsider the Whole Kids Thing. Texas Judge Denies Two Gay Dads Parental Rights to Their Biological Twin Sons... Zun Lee: Father Figure examines black fathers who are invested in raising the... Vintage Family Product Ads... Your girl child is precious says Haryana through this selfie with daughter pr...

Why Remarrying Isn’t What it Used To Be. Husband Rants Online About His Stay-at-Home Wife Being Too Costly For Him. Th... When 'Petting Parties' Scandalized The Nation : NPR History Dept. Cohabitation in the marriage trend. Glogin?mobile=1&URI= Updated age education birth figures. The Rise Of The Woman-Child. Men Value Independence in their Daughters More than Their Wives. Why are women with advanced degrees having more children? Study: Why more highly educated women choose to be moms. You’re still nothing until you’re a mom: Why does pop culture hate the child-... ‘Til Death Do Us Part: Inside the Pulitzer Prize-Winning Domestic Violence Ex... When Sex Ed Discusses Gender Inequality, Sex Gets Safer. Marriage promotion and the myth of teen pregnancy. ‘Til Death Do Us Part: Inside the Pulitzer Prize-Winning Domestic Violence Ex... Free-range vs. helicopter: What does it mean to be a good parent? A scholarly kiss for wedded bliss. I Was Tired of Pressure to Get Married, So I Started a Mannequin Family 

'Free-range' parents plan to file lawsuit after police pick up children. Proof that working mothers need to stop beating themselves up. The real reason research blaming black poverty on black culture has fallen ou... Getting serious about promoting marriage to end poverty. Who Needs Marriage? The terrible loneliness of growing up poor in Robert Putnam’s America. New Dads In Togo Are Guaranteed Something That U.S. Dads Aren't : Goats and Soda. 50 years after the Moynihan report: Hell in a hand basket? Feb15ASRFeature.pdf. Children in same-sex parent families, dead horse edition.

Professor presents research on male support in domestic violence - News - The Daily Athenaeum. Color and the making of gender in early childhood. Don’t be a bachelor: Why married men work harder, smarter and make more money.