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PUA Lingo. Quick Definition: To persist in the face of resistance.

PUA Lingo

(Sometimes spelled “ploughing.”) Full Definition: Plowing is the idea of continuing to push through with a pickup, even if it doesn’t appear to be going well. Plowing is an important skill for PUAs to master because pick up attempts do not always go smoothly. Sometimes, the woman will be totally into the PUA and throwing IOIs left and right, but, more often than not, women who are being hit on will put up some initial resistance. Plowing, at the heart of it, comes down to maintaining a strong frame and the ability to stand up to social pressure. Even if a set is going terribly, it can still be valuable for a PUA to continue plowing because he can learn from the experience. In general, new PUAs tend to eject from sets way too early. Depending on the situation, ejecting too early is almost always worse than trying to plough through a set, as the latter has a chance of success, while the former does not. Usage:

Ultimate Opener CollectionBristol Lair. I really can’t believe I’m posting this… I put this list together back in March when I was first starting out and had it in my head I needed a shit load of PUA openers.

Ultimate Opener CollectionBristol Lair

I found myself going back to this list in the last few weeks since my wings keep stealing my openers (they don’t get it yet that its not the opener itself but the way I deliver it) and I wanted mix things up with something new (or old). Basically theres like well over fifty openers here. If you like took the time to open the 30-50 sets it takes to get really good with an opener with each one you’d be busy for well over a year. Alright a couple things, I’ve tried to give credit to the original authors of the opener wherever possible. If you know the source of any (unknown) openers just post to the thread and I’ll update the post. Also some of these are just the basic skeleton of the opener and theres probably better versions out there. -rocker44 enjoy… ARE YOU SHY? ***I have found a better way to use this opener.

MR. -or- Chief's Guide to Outer Game. Quote: Bear in mind that you don't have to prepare a script ahead of time.

Chief's Guide to Outer Game

Just know what you're looking for in a woman and trust yourself to generate the appropriate fluff talk when the time comes. If you freeze up while you're actually talking to her, just relax and tell her that you're a little shy and not really used to doing this sort of thing. She'll appreciate the honesty and may even help move the conversation forward if you don't run away with your tail tucked between your legs. If she doesn't, then simply taking a breath and relaxing may help you get over mental blocks. More example scripts would help guys out a lot. You can achieve feeling compassion for someone by making an earnest effort to imagine yourself in his or her shoes.

If you had more exercises to adopting this perspective than just one for this seemingly important part, I'm sure guys would have better success. It's definitely OK to use phone calls to just shoot the shit and have shallow, flirty conversations, too.

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