Staying hard and erect is a wonderful feeling for both you and your partner. The sky seems just a little bluer and the ocean of ecstasy seems to move that much better. But what happens when the wind of limpness blows your way and you just can't seem to reach full mass? Does it cause a bit of concern psychologically?
There are a number of physical and chemical causes for a reduction in staying power. But the purpose of this article is to address the mental connection between a man and his penis. Yes, this does sound like something straight out of a sci-fi hypnotizing scene where you see a man standing in front of a mirror with eyes fixed on the reflection of his penis saying, "You are getting harrrrder. Much much harrrrder."
The reality of it is that becoming hard and erect may not work in exactly that way, but it is somewhat similar because it usually has to do with mind control. Swimming in memories of women that have excited us sexually in the past or most recently can stimulate us. Mix in a bit of fantasy during a time of horniness and their it is, a man can be flying at full mass with no end in sight.
That example can be used in regards to becoming aroused privately or in the company of another. If it is much easier to do privately, there may be a level of fear or discomfort that must be overcome in order to produce results in the presence of a sexual partner.
In situations where the same old repetitive experience with the same person can become a turn off due to the lack of excitement and spontaneity.
It may be time to switch up the game plan and add some excitement.