Read This If You Don’t Understand Why Someone Doesn’t Like You. When someone doesn’t want you, in the beginning, it will be hard.
Sometimes, very hard. You will think there is something wrong with you, something so undesirable and unlovable that definitely needs to be fixed and changed. You will try to recall every tiny detail of what happened, examining like it’s a case file and you’re the lead detective just so you could pinpoint a reason why life didn’t go the way you wanted. But there is never a satisfying answer because even if it was the answer given by that person — most likely one to gently let you down, your bruised ego would refuse to believe it anyway.
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Don’t listen to what they say any less than you did your college lectures. Pay attention to what they tell you, no matter how insignificant or mundane. Don’t turn the conversation back around at yourself by using an example from your own life to compare to theirs. Stop comparing all together. Don’t just talk to them, have an actual conversation– an art that is waning. I’m A Sex Therapist And Here Are My Top 5 Pieces Of Advice For Having Sex That Doesn’t Suck.
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He burst into my house with his pack of friends and his flask of Austrian apricot liquor and his tweed jacket with the leather elbows making him look like a candidate for the next Doctor, and he looked at me and grinned like he owned the place. He was cute and he was charismatic and he told me stories about his world travels and, oh, god, he could dance (ladies, you understand), and I knew I had to have him.
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