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What Is a Catholic Family? Photo ANNAPOLIS, Md. — GATHERED in Rome last week to discuss marriage, divorce and the widening array of domestic arrangements with which they now must contend, a group of Roman Catholic bishops released a statement that included a theological turn of phrase that proved more telling than intended.

What Is a Catholic Family?

“We must not forget that the church that preaches about the family is a sign of contradiction.” This was not meant as a self-aware nod to the incongruity of a cohort of celibate men discussing the place of birth control, child-rearing and marital relations in the lives of millions of noncelibate Catholics, nor as an acknowledgment that the church has held conflicting views on the family from the beginning.

A “sign of contradiction” here alludes to a prophecy given to Mary early in the Gospel of Luke that the infant Jesus would be a “sign that is spoken against” by the people he had come to save. Such disagreement was perhaps to be expected. Tracy Schorn: A Public Service Announcement For Remorseless Cheaters. Dear Remorseless Cheaters, Apparently there is still some confusion out there that your extracurricular shenanigans are wrong.

Tracy Schorn: A Public Service Announcement For Remorseless Cheaters

In the interest of members of the unsuspecting public that may hook up, marry, or have children with you, the following PSA is offered. 1. You aren't "edgy. " You think we lack the sophistication and intellect to understand your complicated love rhombus. 2. 3. 4. Tell that to the man who had to paternity test his children. Words Starting With 'O' Babble.com: Was I Wrong to Post This Picture of My Daughter and Myself on the Internet?

Written by Serge Bielanko for Babble.com Not long ago, I wrote a piece for Babble Voices called Old Work Boots & Camouflage Cargos: How NOT to Let Your Man Fall Out of Fashion.

Babble.com: Was I Wrong to Post This Picture of My Daughter and Myself on the Internet?

Yeah, I know I know, that's a mouthful of a title, but I wanted to get my point across and, well, that was what I came up with. It was a funny piece, or at least that's what I was aiming for; I wanted to convey that sometimes being a parent sees us giving up a little ground on the fashion/physical shape front. I had gained a few pounds since my daughter was born three years ago and my dress code had taken a pretty hard hit, too. Plus, I like to laugh a little at myself here and there -- it helps keep things in perspective, I think. Not long after my article was published on the internet for anyone to read, it also was featured on the Babble Facebook page. But then a funny thing happened.

Related: The 10 biggest secrets parents hide from their kids. Parenting Apart: How Separated and Divorced Parents Can Raise Happy and Secure Kids (9780425232125): Christina McGhee. The Happiest Toddler on the Block: The New Way to Stop the Daily Battle of Wills and Raise a Secure and Well-Behaved One- to Four-Year-Old (9780553381436): Harvey Karp, Paula Spencer. The Kissing Hand (9781933718002): Audrey Penn, Ruth E. Harper, Nancy M. Leak. Snaily Snail Board Book (Thingy Things) (9780786806393): Chris Raschka. Separated 2 year old only child.how to divisde time. Children and Divorce: Helping your kids cope with the effects of separation and divorce. Blackwell Publishing Book. Children in Changing Families: Life After Parental Separation - Jan Pryor, Bryan Rodgers.

At a time when separation and divorce are at historically high rates, this book supplies much-needed insights into why some children survive change in families better than others.

Children in Changing Families: Life After Parental Separation - Jan Pryor, Bryan Rodgers

Sifting through international research on families undergoing change, the authors consider what can be learnt about children's experiences and well-being. The book starts by documenting demographic changes across North America, the UK, Australia and New Zealand and by outlining known outcomes for children affected by parental separation and stepfamily formation. It then goes on to address in detail children's own perceptions of family change, what happens when family transitions occur, children's experience in stepfamilies, and the hotly-debated issue of the involvement of fathers in children's lives. Finally, the authors draw out the implications of research for policy and practice.

Partnership for Children. Good Books for Tough Times are guides to books for children.

Partnership for Children

One for children aged 5-8, and one for children aged 9-12. They’re designed to help you find the right book for your child. The books have been independently selected and reviewed by Partnership for Children. They all deal with difficult feelings and situations – sibling jealousy, bullying at school, a death in the family – but are also really good books that can be enjoyed at any time. ‘I can only recommend Good Books for Tough Times, as I think they are really excellent guides, for parents and schools.’ - The Times. Parenting after separation or divorce. Research shows that conflicts between former partners have more negative effects on children's wellbeing than all the other consequences of a divorce or separation.

Parenting after separation or divorce

Hostility between parents is the most important obstacle to children adapting well to their new family situation. Helping children through separation. Your decision has been made: you are going to separate, or perhaps a separation has already occurred.

Helping children through separation

You, your ex-partner and your children are preparing to experience a period of great change in your emotional life, your lifestyle and financial matters. This is a time when responsibilities alter and are re-evaluated. Things will never be the same again, but there are many things a parent can do which have been proven to help children adapt. TWELVE DOS AND DON’TS TO HELP CHILDREN DEAL WITH PARENTAL SEPARATION OR DIVORCE. There are many actions that parents can take to help their children deal with parental separation or divorce.

TWELVE DOS AND DON’TS TO HELP CHILDREN DEAL WITH PARENTAL SEPARATION OR DIVORCE

The following recommendations will help all family members adapt to their new circumstances with greater success: Stop or limit contact between the natural parents if this contact continues to result in arguing, yelling, screaming, crying upset, name calling, threats, belittling, put downs, violence and other such things. Children and Separation. Separation or divorce does not normally end your involvement and responsibility as a parent.

Children and Separation

Children need the continuing affection and support of both parents. This will require cooperation with your former partner which may not always be easy. The pain of a separation can be felt in many ways. You may feel lonely, desperate, depressed or grief-stricken; you may feel a failure and lose your selfconfidence; you may feel angry, jealous or guilty.

Mixed up with all these emotions, you might also feel a sense of relief. All of these feelings are normal responses to a separation. The other reaction is where you try to make the best of the situation and learn through your experience. The way you handle the separation very much affects how your children cope with it. What about the Children? - Parenting Information — Relationships Australia - National site.

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