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Dating & Relationship Strategies and tips. Womanizer Signs: 5 Warning Signs That You're Dating A Womanizer. By Jane Garapick for YourTango.com Getting back into the dating game after a painful divorce is never easy, and the proliferation of womanizers looking to take advantage of your vulnerability only makes things worse.

Womanizer Signs: 5 Warning Signs That You're Dating A Womanizer

If you're just starting to dip your toes back into the dating pool after a recent divorce, you need to be able to tell whether the guy who shows up at your door to whisk you back into the world of romance really is the Prince Charming you've been hoping for or if he's simply a smooth Casanova in disguise. It all starts innocently enough. You've just met a man who, at least on the surface, seems to be your dream guy. He's attractive, funny, charming, successful and his smile -- let alone the thought of his caress -- makes you weak in the knees. The Gratitude List. The other day I was listening to a song that I hadn’t heard in years.

The Gratitude List

In fact, it was a song that played a lot while my wife and I were engaged. It brought back so many great memories. But something interesting happened. I started actively thinking about my wife and what a cool person she is. I realized my brain was going through a mental checklist of sorts cataloging all of the positive experiences, memories, and feelings that our relationship has helped me to have. Just a day after that experience, I had a talk with a close friend who shared how one time he listed out 101 things he loved about his wife and gave it to her as an anniversary present. I opened up the ‘ol laptop and started typing away as fast as I could.

Fear of Intimacy/Commitment. Do you struggle in relationships that are defined by drama, or by the pursuit/withdraw dynamic between partners?

Fear of Intimacy/Commitment

Do your relationships start with intense passion, then quickly end? Do your long-term relationships wear you out with never-ending emotional turmoil? Do you or your partner “stir the pot” whenever things start to feel settled or do you do lots of breaking up and making up? Are you an “active runner” in your relationships—someone who erects barriers that block emotional intimacy between yourself and your partner? Or are you a “passive runner”—someone who chooses (unconsciously or consciously) partners who are somehow unavailable? The fear of intimacy in relationships is a highly salient issue for many people today. The active runner: Is usually unavailable for intimacy because of some observable, concrete reason. No pillow talk. By Daily Mail Reporter Published: 08:04 GMT, 22 July 2012 | Updated: 06:59 GMT, 23 July 2012 It's a problem that leaves many woman frustrated, but scientists might have finally given men an excuse for sleeping straight after sex For men who roll over and nod off rather than engage in pillow talk, it’s the perfect excuse.

They really do need to sleep after sex because the male brain is designed to switch off at that point, scientists claim. They scanned men’s brains before and during orgasm, and found that the cerebral cortex – or ‘thinking’ area – shuts down. Straight afterwards, two other areas, the cingulate cortex and amygdala, tell the rest of the brain to deactivate from sexual desire. This is accompanied by a surge of chemicals such as oxytocin and serotonin, which can have a powerful sleep-inducing effect, according to the researchers. ‘For women it seems to be different. One of the chemicals they release is prolactin, which is linked to the feeling of sexual satisfaction.

Maintaining a Healthy Relationship - Successful Relationships. Read these 7 Maintaining a Healthy Relationship Tips tips to make your life smarter, better, faster and wiser.

Maintaining a Healthy Relationship - Successful Relationships

Each tip is approved by our Editors and created by expert writers so great we call them Gurus. LifeTips is the place to go when you need to know about Relationship tips and hundreds of other topics. Components of Successful Relationships Long term relationships require care and work to maintain closeness. Common components found in successful relationships include: communication, respect, trust, sharing, individuality and self-care. Successful relationships are based on the following components: · Communication. . · Trust and respect. . · Team approach. . · Deal with problems as they arise. . · Share responsibility and decision making. . · Fight fair. . · Take care of yourself. Nora Ephron Quotes To Get You Through A Breakup (PHOTOS) The late Nora Ephron put her keen knack for observation to use in essays, novels and beloved screenplays (think "When Harry Met Sally," "Sleepless in Seattle," and more).

Nora Ephron Quotes To Get You Through A Breakup (PHOTOS)

But as far as we're concerned, Ephron, who died in June 2012, was at her best whe writing about the heartbreak -- and the eventual healing -- that comes after a split. (It's not for nothing that Ephron served as HuffPost Divorce's editor-at-large.) To celebrate Ephron's birthday on May 19, we've compiled six of our favorite quotes from the late writer on nursing a broken heart. Change Your Mindset to Improve Relationships « The Art of Relationships. By Leslie Becker-Phelps, PhD People often wish they were different in their relationships in some important way.

Change Your Mindset to Improve Relationships « The Art of Relationships

For instance, you might wish that you could be less quick to anger, remember important dates such as birthdays, or communicate more effectively. In whatever way you want to be different, you can learn to do it if you get in the right mindset. Marriage/family. Is Marriage Even Necessary These Days?