Closet Child. Candy Violet. Lolita Fashion - For Lolitas of All Styles. By Amber “Spydie” Seagrave first published in (2007) La Vie en Rose (Volume 1.) A quality Lolita outfit can be difficult to create: Many girls, especially those who have just started in Lolita fashion, confuse what is often called “Cosplay Lolita” with Lolita. There are key differences between the two.