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Herbs. Herb Almanac: Symptoms. Healing foods reference database. Natural Protect From Radiation. Neat Stuff Ecstasy Drug-Crazed Ravers Are Like Chemical Buddhas Published on April 4th, 2014 | by Jason Louv Ecstasy drug-fueled Dutch ravers are by turns idiotic and profound in this hilarious video This video (via the Dutch magazine Flabber) captures partygoers out of their skulls on Ecstasy at Thunderdome, a hardcore techno / gabber festival that [&hellip...

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Why Avoidance Coping is the Most Important Factor in Anxiety. Avoidance coping refers to choosing your behavior based on trying to avoid or escape particular thoughts or feelings. It can involve "doing" (e.g., someone who excessively washes their hands to try to get rid of fears about contamination) or "not doing" (e.g., when someone avoids having an awkward conversation). Avoidance coping causes anxiety to snowball because when people use avoidance coping they typically end up experiencing more of the very thing they were trying to escape. Here are some examples related to anxiety disorders, but the principle applies to anxiety generally. - People with panic disorder engage in avoidance coping (including not leaving their home in some cases) in order to try to avoid panicky feelings.

The more they try to avoid situations that might trigger panicky feelings, the more almost every situation begins to trigger panicky feelings. 10 Easy Ways to Become a Better Person - Manage Your Life on Shine. Twelve Virtues of Rationality by Eliezer Yudkowsky - StumbleUpon. Challenging the way you live! 21 Habits of Happy People. Contributed by Cindy Holbrook.

21 Habits of Happy People

8 Harsh Truths that Will Improve Your Life - Dumb Little Man. Social skills. What if We're Wrong About the "Cause" of Mental Illness? This may be the month we put together enough evidence that childhood trauma may not be the "responsible" agent in causing serious mental disorders to at least make us reconsider our popular theories.

What if We're Wrong About the "Cause" of Mental Illness?

Of course there's been plenty of prior evidence, but fixed ideas, even wrong ones, are hard to change. On March 2, a story by Jeremy Laurence appeared, reporting that a common acne antibiotic was found, quite by accident, to alleviate symptoms in patients with schizophrenia . This was a shocking surprise for some, especially clinicians I imagine. The belief that curing mental illness happens by overcoming childhood trauma has been the anchor of psychotherapy since the last century, despite plenty of contrary evidence. The story linking antibiotics and relief from symptoms of schizophrenia is just another piece of empirical data, suggesting that we might be off base in the assumption that childhood trauma explains the etiology of serious mental illnesses.

Hlhendrickx. Dealing with Difficult People. Some people go to extraordinary lengths to be difficult.

Dealing with Difficult People

Think of the diva actress whose on-set needs can never be met or the boss who keeps moving the goal posts. The difficult person elevates the deliberate provocation to an art form. The underlying message is often, "Unless you agree with me and go along, you'll regret it. " 38 Ways To Win An Argument. 9 Useful Strategies to Dealing with Difficult People at Work. Ever encountered someone who frustrates you so much that you feel like you want to pull your hair, jump around the room and just scream out loud? 16 Tips to Survive Brutal Criticism (and Ask for More) “You suck.”

16 Tips to Survive Brutal Criticism (and Ask for More)

Everyone encounters criticism, whether it is a boss pointing out falling performance, a bad review for your book, or even self-criticism after an embarrassing slip-up. 5 Ways to Change Someone's Mind. An expert recently claimed that knowing--and using-- a few simple rules can help you change the minds of other people.

5 Ways to Change Someone's Mind

The first rule of changing minds is to keep your message short, sharp, and simple. How to Fight Right. Asperger's and Relationships. The Awkward Human Survival Guide: How to Handle Life's Most Uncomfortable People. The art of mindreading: Empathy or rational inference? The ability to infer what another person is thinking is an essential tool for social interaction and is known by neuroscientists as "Theory of Mind" (ToM), but how does the brain actually allow us to do this?

The art of mindreading: Empathy or rational inference?

We are able to rationally infer what someone knows, thinks, or intends, but we are also able to "slip into their shoes" and infer how they feel, and it seems that the brain processes these different types of information in different ways, as confirmed by a new report in the June 2010 issue of Elsevier's Cortex. Prof. Elke Kalbe and colleagues from the Institute of Neuroscience and Medicine at the Research Centre Juelich and the Neurological University Clinic Cologne, Germany, studied a group of male volunteers as they performed a computerized task, which assessed their abilities in both emotional and rational inference.

Coauthor Prof. Why Smart People Have Poor Communication Skills – and What to Do About It. On October 23, 1990, David Pologruto, a high school physics teacher, was stabbed by his smart student Jason Haffizulla.

Why Smart People Have Poor Communication Skills – and What to Do About It

Jason was not a teenager you think would try to kill someone. He got straight A’s and was determined to study medicine at Harvard, yet this was his downfall. His physics teacher gave Jason a B, a mark Jason believed would undermine his entrance to Harvard. After discovering his B, Jason took a butcher knife to school then stabbed his physics teacher before being reprimanded in a struggle. 7 Strategies for Introverts (by Introverts) to Ignite Socializing Skills. Life, to me, is all about human connections.

7 Strategies for Introverts (by Introverts) to Ignite Socializing Skills

No, it’s not so much about the “professional networking” aspect or building a social media network full of fans and promoters. Even in our increasingly tech-laden world, it’s those pure, totally uninhibited, simply “human” face-to-face connections that mean the absolute most in life. Relationship Rules. Human beings crave intimacy, need to love and be loved.

Relationship Rules

Yet people have much trouble doing so. It's clear from the many letters I get that lots of folks have no idea what a healthy relationship even looks like. Because I care about these things, and care about the environments children grow in, I'm using this space as an attempt to remedy the problem—again. From many sources and many experts, I have culled some basic rules of relationships. Posture and Body Language. Reading Body Language. Listening Skills. Michael Merzenich on re-wiring the brain. Steven Pinker on language and thought.

Simon Sinek: How great leaders inspire action. Urgent ACTION. Podcasts and Downloads - Factual. Films for families: The top 50 movies to watch as a family. Spiritual Alchemy. Your Guide to Life Changing Media. Psychology of Color [Infographic]

Perhaps no choice is as vital to marketing as color. Whether you are selecting the color for a product or for your email marketing campaign, color has tremendous impact on all of us. Subconsciously, we associate different colors with different things. This infographic examines the psychology of color and looks at some common associations of different colors. It shows the overall importance of color to consumers and characteristics of many individual colors, and it also helps show the connection between graphic design and psychology.

The numbers are pretty fascinating! The most honest three and a half minutes of television, EVER… Alter infos news. Corporations & Gov Watch.