Psych Central - Romance and Attachment Quiz. Bids For Connection Quiz. Marital Problem Analysis. Personal History Questionnaire. Personal History Questionnaire (PHQ) When a couple first see me for counseling, I have them complete my Personal History Questionnaire, which systematically reviews many of the significant events of their past, and some of their deepest emotional feelings.
After I have read through their answers, and have had a chance to ask them questions that their answers suggest, in many ways I come to know them better than their spouse knows them. And that's very sad. In less than three hours I can know more about a person than the one who has lived with him or her for a decade or more. I don't want you to be as ignorant of each other as so many of my clients were when they first came to see me. Make two copies of this questionnaire, so that you can both get to know each other better.
Please note: You will need Adobe® Acrobat® Reader installed on your computer to view the PHQ. RELATIONSHIP QUESTIONNAIRE. Marriage Inventory Quiz. Recreational Enjoyment Inventory. The Recreational Enjoyment Inventory (REI) It?
S all to obvious that when you spend recreational time together, you have a great opportunity to deposit love units into each other's Love Banks. It simply makes good sense for couples to take every opportunity to share recreational experiences because it? S such an easy way to sustain the feeling of love. But for some, especially men, recreation is not only an enjoyable diversion, but it also meets an important emotional need. I encourage couples to spend most, if not all, of their recreational time together (see Why Should a Couple Plan to Be with Each Other When They Are the Happiest?).
Most couples share favorite recreational activities during courtship. How do you get back on track after you find yourselves in this mess? The Recreational Enjoyment Inventory is designed to help you discover these mutually enjoyable activities. Please note: You will need Adobe® Acrobat® Reader installed on your computer to view the REI. Love Busters Questionnaire. Love Busters Questionnaire (LBQ) Love Busters are your habits that cause your spouse to be unhappy.
Whenever you engage in one of them, you withdraw love units from your Love Bank account. Why do you engage in Love Busters? Why do you cause your spouse to be unhappy? One of the most important reasons is that, while they may make your spouse feel bad, they make you feel good. Since Love Busters usually make you feel good while your spouse feels bad, the one best able to identify them is your spouse. I've designed the Love Busters Questionnaire to help you identify the Love Busters in your marriage. Before you complete these questionnaires, you should be familiar with the description of Love Busters found in my Basic Concepts.
The analysis of each Love Buster follows a sequence of questions. At the end of the questionnaire, you are asked to rate the Love Busters according to the unhappiness they create. Relationship Behavior Profile. Relationship Behavior Profile The following sets of questions will help you closely examine your feelings about your partner, yourself and your relationship.
Your Partner: Here are 10 questions that will help organize and guide your thinking about why you feel the way you do about your partner. If some of your answers are the same to each question, that's OK. Use a journal, if you wish, to help you better understand your feelings. 1) List five instances of your partner's loving behavior toward you during the last month. 2) List five instances of unloving or hateful things your partner has done to you during the last month. 3) List and describe your partner's five best qualities. 4) List and describe your partner's five worst qualities. 5) List five things which you have asked or scolded or nagged your partner to correct or improve, but which your partner has not corrected or improved. 6) List five things that made you fall in love with your partner. Relationship tool, play 20 questions with your partner.