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Why our relationships fail - Robin S. Cohen, Ph.D. How do we first begin to experience love?

why our relationships fail - Robin S. Cohen, Ph.D.

Perhaps as babies, as early psychoanalysts Fairbairn and Guntrip believed, the only way we could feel loved was by having our needs met. The language of bodily transformation was the language of love. Mommy feeds us, changes our diaper or picks us up and we feel satisfied. This feeling of satisfaction and security may be the early equivalent to feeling loved. Love becomes represented by how satisfied and safe our caretakers make us feel; how easily and well they transform our bad feelings into good ones. Manipulation News, Videos, Reviews and Gossip - Lifehacker. Manipulation News, Videos, Reviews and Gossip - Lifehacker. Emotion vs. Logic: "The easiest way to manipulate people—especially Americans—" Usually true and this makes me sad. But, its not always true. I find it helpful to apply the TV/Politics test. Manipulation News, Videos, Reviews and Gossip - Lifehacker.

Manipulation News, Videos, Reviews and Gossip - Lifehacker. Controversy. Top 10 Conversation Hacks. How to detect bullshit. By Scott Berkun, August 9, 2006 Everyone lies: it’s just a question of how, when and why.

How to detect bullshit

From the relationship saving “yes, you do look thin in those pants” to the improbable “your table will be ready in 5 minutes”, manipulating the truth is part of the human condition. Accept it now. Knowing When to Walk Away from Unrequited Love. If you want me, then fight for me because i'm done fighting… 15 Styles of Distorted Thinking. Micro Expressions - Research, Theory & Lying. Interesting Info -> Lying Index & Body Language -> Micro Expressions Is the show "Lie to Me" for real?

Micro Expressions - Research, Theory & Lying

I am not a police interrogator, scientist, or other expert... I am however a mother & people watcher. Years ago, when I wrote articles on How to Detect Lies & Eye Movement and Lying -- I knew of the Micro expression theory, but had a difficult time researching the subject well enough to relay it into an article. Recently, I've come across tons of new research, websites, articles, videos, etc. about micro expressions and believe anyone who reads my old articles about lying & body language would benefit from micro expression research and theory.

Relationships. Body Language and Conversation. The Neuroscience of Relationship Breakups. "...Loves me, loves me not" An unexpected and unwanted breakup can cause considerable psychological distress. People report feeling as if they have been kicked in the stomach or blindsided and knocked down. Feelings of rejection and self-doubt are common, as is the feeling of being stuck and unable to let go, even when one wants to. Friends and family may push the person to get over it and move on, yet brain research suggests this can be very difficult to do, at least in the first few months. B reakups and the Brain. Defense Mechanisms. Defense mechanisms are automatic psychological processes that protect an individual from anxiety and the awareness of internal or external threats or stressors.

Defense Mechanisms

People are often unaware of these processes as they operate (although others may be painfully aware of them!). Defense mechanisms can be classified into groups or levels that indicate how they affect an individual's functioning. High Adaptive Level: Defense mechanisms in this group result in optimal adaptation to stress. How to Detect Lies - body language, reactions, speech patterns. Interesting Info -> Lying Index -> How to Detect Lies Become a Human Lie Detector (Part 1) Warning: sometimes ignorance is bliss.

How to Detect Lies - body language, reactions, speech patterns

After gaining this knowledge, you may be hurt when it is obvious that someone is lying to you. The following deception detection techniques are used by police, forensic psychologists, security experts and other investigators. Eight Ways to Spot Emotional Manipulation. 1) There is no use in trying to be honest with an emotional manipulator.

Eight Ways to Spot Emotional Manipulation

You make a statement and it will be turned around. Example: I am really angry that you forgot my birthday. Response - "It makes me feel sad that you would think I would forget your birthday, I should have told you of the great personal stress I am facing at the moment - but you see I didn’t want to trouble you. Brain Difference In Psychopaths Identified. Professor Declan Murphy and colleagues Dr Michael Craig and Dr Marco Catani from the Institute of Psychiatry at King's College London have found differences in the brain which may provide a biological explanation for psychopathy.

Brain Difference In Psychopaths Identified

The research investigated the brain biology of psychopaths with convictions that included attempted murder, manslaughter, multiple rape with strangulation and false imprisonment. Using a powerful imaging technique (DT-MRI) the researchers have highlighted biological differences in the brain which may underpin these types of behaviour and provide a more comprehensive understanding of criminal psychopathy. Dr Michael Craig said: 'If replicated by larger studies the significance of these findings cannot be underestimated. The suggestion of a clear structural deficit in the brains of psychopaths has profound implications for clinicians, research scientists and the criminal justice system.'

5 Douchebag Behaviors Explained by Science. There are men whose very appearance can compel you to turn your head in disgust, muttering the word "douche" in a long whisper.

5 Douchebag Behaviors Explained by Science

They're flexing in their skin-tight t-shirt, invading women's personal space at the bar and going on and on about their goddamn promotion. For all the times you've muttered, "What's the deal with that douchebag? " science has actually taken the time to answer what was probably a rhetorical question. How to handle a break-up online. Etiquette in today's digital world can be tricky.

How to handle a break-up online

Andrea Bartz, left, and Brenna Ehrlich are here to help. Andrea Bartz and Brenna Ehrlich are CNN.com's "netiquette" columnists Here's how to avoid reminders of your bad break-up while online Consider blocking exes on sites like Twitter, Foursquare or Facebook. Eight Ways to Spot Emotional Manipulation.