RickRoll'D. Do not push the red button. A(n)nals of Online Dating - Page 3 of 23. Why can’t I find a good looking woman with her life in order to DATE and be in a RELATIONSHIP with??? Am I too ugly? I would have thought having a stable job, place of my own, car, Harley, dog and no kids would be a good thing??? But it seems that those things don’t matter. I think I am a decent looking guy. I’m not sure what I have to do to attract the right woman. . +10 for whoaaaaa suicidal! +6 for you know what else you are doing wrong? +4 because the “right woman” is the same thing as “arm candy.” Is it going to rain?